2021.09.26 11:57 Emotional_Map9681 trade
2021.09.26 11:57 Amanuma04 SoS PoOT Planning Sheet
I had nothing better to do, so I decided to create a planning sheet for Pioneers of Olive Town. Very simple things: just one tab to help you keep track of the materials you need for buildings and upgrades, and the other tab is to help planning the map of your farm. If it will help you, just dowload a copy for yourself.
I'm not that far into the game, so if there are any more facilities to add I don't know. Anyway, just copy and paste the facilities wherever you want on the map (I just used double borders to mark the fences).
I left my farm plan there as an example, but I only really thought about what to do in one area so far.
(and I left some check marks on the upgrades table if anyone would rather just copy and paste it)
That's it, I hope it's useful to someone.
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2021.09.26 11:57 Aili_V Maybe I am just broken and useless?
I have found this sub really helpful lately, so thankyou for that. My problem lies in that every job I've ever had, I've been sexually come on to, abused, used, touched inappropriately, asked to go on dates with married bosses, underpaid and treated like shit. (That's hospitality and retail for you) I have been out of work for a few years and the pandemic made it worse. But the thing is I don't know if I will ever be comfortable being objectified and treated like a peice of meat ever again. I am just so scarred by my whole working life that I don't think I could do it again? Does anyone have any suggestions about how not to feel this way anymore?
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2021.09.26 11:57 GrappLr Discord
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2021.09.26 11:57 chrisswissswag holy shit look at this volcano separating two large bodies of water.
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2021.09.26 11:57 JacquelineBlack Huge shoutout to light workers
Currently on a mental health + spiritual healing journey.. Been doing all the hard internal work, and every now and then I go to energy healing sessions.
Its very dark and heavy inside my mind and soul currently as I am clearing through my blocks.. It constantly feels like a giant scorching hot boulder is crushing me.
This post is to give a huge a special thank you to light workers. Your work is so vital and important. Those few hours within the healing sessions is when I’m actually able to step out from underneath the boulder and breathe.
I know that carrying the weight for others isn’t easy, but allowing those like me who are walking through the darkness to feel the light is more important than you know.
When the darkness and ego tries to desperately cling onto the parts of me that are dying, I remember the warmth of the light I am working towards.
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2021.09.26 11:57 Rapama2 The Universe is in Shape of Shiva Lingam
2021.09.26 11:57 DifferentBlonde Am I doing it right?
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2021.09.26 11:57 CosoPotentissimo Seiba is ready to hang out
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2021.09.26 11:57 caveman9797 Hey everybody! If you were to back a deck you loved in kickstarter what would be a favorite add on to pick up?
Hey all, my brother and I are working on our first deck! (so excited to finally be getting this done) I would like anyones opinion who is willing to give it. I thank everybody for participating and cant wait to share more about the deck.
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2021.09.26 11:57 cutilikre036 Anyone got any idea what this long sleeve t-shirt is?
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2021.09.26 11:57 hsimpkins82 Brother Totaled a hertz rental car
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2021.09.26 11:57 Katreno101 I have Aspergers and have been fighting with a friend over some behavioral issues. Help?
Ok, so I'm a 27 year old Female. I know I have aspergers and ADHD. I don't get treatment for it really as I have not had to many issues and Covid has made appointment availability a nightmare but I am scheduled on the 15th of October to see my behavioral therapist.
I'm going to try and post unbiased info of what's going on to the best of my ability.
I have this friend who I let move in with me, we've been friends since 2013. We get along fairly well but every now and then there's a massive blow up, usually in response to something I do that has un knowingly affected this friend. She has a tendency to confront me at 110% and it's a bit intense honestly. She has a history of lashing out at me or other friends and my family when they do something she deems unacceptable. She doesn't have a middle ground and is either at 0% or 100% when a confrontation arises. This has been difficult for me and others.
So she's been living with me since MARCH 2020. Our first big blow up was September 2020 when her and I went on a road trip to Utah with a mutual friend. Things didn't go as planned due to either dirty rooms at hotel or other people being rude or me and our other friend taking a while to get ready due to both of us working remotely. She blew up on the way back home and verbally lashed out at both of us, insulted my friends new car for not being big enough and accusing me of not being aware of her feelings over an apparent racist shop owner that I didn't notice. (I guess this shop owner offered us free samples but not her? I wasn't really paying attention) anyways it devolved into a massive fight with both of us yelling and screaming at each other.
Well after that my dad (not knowing of that fight) invited me and her and our mutual friend to go on a family trip and mentioned the trip to all three of us while I had my dad on speaker while we were on our way back home. This made things awkward since me and our mutual friend really weren't on good terms with with each other. This friend I'm having issues with can be a bit nuclear about things and I now had to choose between the two since I couldn't bring both due to strain on the friend ship. So I decided to tell her I wanted this to just be a family trip. Which was also true, as this would be the first trip with my whole family, (dad, step mom and brother) . I didn't want to tell her that it was because I was afraid of her blowing up, infront of my family, in another country. I didn't lie necessarily, I had about 5 reasons why I didn't want her to go, I chose to tell her to least.... complicated reason. She wasn't satisfied with that reason so I told her the next one down the list which was the financial cost of the trip. She didn't have a job and was also struggling to keep up with the rent so I explained that I also didn't want to put a financial strain on her. (Also I think its shitty to invite someone to something you know they can't afford) anyways, because I "lied" to her about this we've been more prone to fighting.
Onto chapter 2.
Another incident that happened was I July. I went out of town to an aviation event. I jokingly mentioned I was gonna see if there were any cute guys I could make friends with since I have been divorced a year. I recently got out of an abusive marriage back in 2020 so I haven't really been looking to date anyone honestly. She was very adamant that I be careful and not talk to anyone or just be careful in general, which I Know. It's October practically and I still haven't gone out on a date. I jokingly told her about some pilot friends I met and she wasn't too happy. So I got home and I told her I didn't get anyone's number I planned on dating. Because I didn't. I did make some awesome new friends though! Well, I went to hang out with another friend and she wanted to come with so I brought her with me. This other girlfriend is the giddy boys and dating kind and she asked me if I got anyone's number. I said yes, I did get a few guys numbers. And I did kinda get giddy with her about it, it's just our thing when we talk. I did exaggerate the intent a bit as I wanted to please her giddiness. But this DID NOT GO OVER WELL WITH MY TROUBLE FRIEND. We got back home and we got into another fight and mad that I lied to either her or my giddy friend. So another lie basically.
Third incident. I'm having a tough time coping with being around my biological mom. I lover her and care about her, but lately being around her has kinda... triggered? Some ptsd? Long story of abuse I don't want to get into. Anyways I came home one day pretty rattled because of my mom having a mental episode. My friend had a long conversation with me and it resulted in me telling her I wouldn't see my mom again. I kept trying to tell her I couldn't promise that, she's my mom, I still love her and I want to be able to see her without it affecting me. That wasn't going to fly with my friend and the conversation went in circles until I finally just told her I wouldn't see my mom again. Of course that wasn't going to happen. About a month after this I went to. A family birthday, she asked if my mom was going to be there and I told her I didn't know, probabaly not and I did not mention to her that she was there when I got back home. I did talk to my dad about how the birthday went though. Unknown to me, my friend has been calling my dad to talk about me and my "problems" and she found out through him that I did infact see my mom.
Now those three lies have really driven a wedge in the friend ship, ontop of that, I have made small white lies. FOR EXAMPLE Me and her started a small part time job early in the mornings and on our second day she wanted to get coffee which was going to make us late, I didn't know how chill the guy we were helping was so I lied to him and said we were running late cause of my blood sugars or something. I don't want to get both of us fired over a Starbucks run. I know now that the guy is chill and I can let him know "hey, grabbing coffee, may be a few mins late depending on the line"
Well this last weekend, I had a male friend over. We were sitting in the couch, I was off in lala land watching YouTube and they were having a conversation. I wasn't super paying attention until her voice got raised. I guess she started talking to this friend about her issues with me and our drama, she was asking him if he agreed with her. He was getting visibly uncomfortable and shrugging at her. He finally told her that he knows I have some issues I need to work out, but those issues don't really bother him that much and he disagrees with the way she's handling them. He told her he didn't think hammering me repeatedly was going to fix anything fast. She was not happy with his answer and accused him of defending me because he only wants to sleep with me. And vegan throwing personal attacks at him and his character. I got involved at this point, because fo this is NOT his business and does not need to be character shamed. This fight came out of left field, cause they originally were talking politics so I wasn't emotionally prepared for this fight. It devolved into her screaming at me and him and saying a bunch of horrible things which I mention in the next paragraph. Now, this male friend, he works with special needs kids and kids with autism as a high-school teacher. So he knows a thing or two about how to deal with things. Immediately after this, she called another friend if mine, who suffers from a lot of severe health complications, she needs a liver transplant, spleen removed, etc and doesn't handle stress well. I don't know what all was said but it resulted in her sister contacting me and telling me they may have to take her to the hospital and to not involve her in our drama. It's been a week and she's still bed ridden. I'm absolutely pissed at the amount of people my friend has involved in our drama, and as much as she says I'm bad person for doing things unintentionally that hurt people's feelings, she's been hurting a lot more people by dragging them into our drama.
I know lying is bad, I am seeing my therapist about this next month. The lying seems to be coming from a place of fear or avoidance. Trying to avoid a major or bigger conflict or to get out of a conflict. It's hit a point now where this friend has taken it upon herself to message every single mutual friend and even my family. Unfortunately some of the things I'm hearing from them are not true either, so she's either lying to get at me or misremmebering details or just so angry that things are getting sloppy. She called me an autistic f$%&, a worthless human being, a pathological liar whose worse than my mom, lazy and a bunch of other hurtful things. She's also been sending me chat forums on topics like "You can't have aspergers and be a pathological liar" etc. Implying I'm either a narcissist or sociopath neither of which I have been diagnosed as. Basically saying I don't have aspergers and my doctors are wrong but instead I'm this horrible monster for lying to her.
There's a lot more to this, my biggest concern is the lying. I want to stop lying even if it means hurting someone's feelings to tell them the truth. But also want to know how to deal with people not accepting the truth and emotionally beating me to the point I just give up and lie myself out of the argument to get it over with and then go about my day. That's not good either. Are those very abnormal things to lie about? Do normal people lie? Am I really a pathological liar because of those? I don't want to be. I'm sorry if aim not good at telling an unbiased story. It's a lot over a long period of time and there's a lot of other things that have happened. Like I tend to not be aware of how the things I complain about compared to other people's situations can be out of touch or tone deaf? Like I'm frustrated that work isn't paying me commission but my managers are, but we can't get paid till items ship, but we have no inventory but despite that our management still makes a profit. She got onto me for complaining about that and how it makes her mad becuase she doesn't have a job. So I should just be happy I have a job. I AM HAPPY I HAVE A JOB. But does that mean I'm not allowed to complain about something that bothers me? This happens a lot where something will bother me, I vent about it, but then I get in trouble cause other people have it worse. I understand that, but everyone should have the freedom to vent when they are upset, shutting up and bottling stuff up just cause other people have it worse isn't healthy in my opinion.
I'm so sorry for the poorly structure wall of text. I know I have some issues I need to work on. And I am determined to get tocthe bottom of this. I'm sure my therapist will have answers, but her continually sending me forum threads about how I'm misdiagnosed or a schizophrenic is getting to me. I told her I don't think we should be talking and I have Unfortunately reached a point where I told her she needs to find another place to live. The things she said to me, I don't care if it was out of anger, I'm not letting someone live in MY HOUSE that I worked hard for and get away with saying those things to me. Being around eachother 24/7 is not helping either. It's just constant constant. And now I'm unsure of everything I do or say and other friends are concerned and keep telling me I am acting like someone who's in an abusive relationship? The mutual friends of mine she's been talking to about me have started blocking her, she's done this to other people as well and she has a tendency to gas light. She's pushing a lot of people away with all of this, but I also found out, the morning of our last major blow up, when she said those awful things to me, a family member of hers died. And I'm wondering if the reaction I'm getting from her has to do with that. She tends to go nuclear when something bad happens to her. She seems to be the only one who feels this way but she's been asking my friends and family for "advise" on how to deal with me. After speaking to them and listening to what they told her, my family and other friends have figured out she's using them and cherry picking statements to gas light me. Such as "well, I'm not the only one who feels this about about you, your dad said XYZ and thinks this too" my family and friends have given her advice on how to work with me through these issues, but instead of using the advice given to her in a constructive manner, she's using it to gaslight me and make it as if my friends and family are severely hiding their "true feelings" about me. They are absolutely pissed that they time and effort talking to her has resulted in their words being twisted to fit a combative narrative. I've spoken to these people personally and what they are saying to me is not at all what she is.
Again I'm sorry for the long wall of nonsense. I'm not saying I'm innocent here, I have quality flaws that need fixing. I'm just worried about the lying mainly. Integrity is important, I think everyone tells a white lie here and there, but the other lies worry me. If you made it this far, thanks.
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2021.09.26 11:57 Tilion90 Lighthouse by Sunset - 500 Ravensburger
2021.09.26 11:57 zutaraa found a tattoo artist I love but I can't think of what to get - help!
i'm not sure if this is uncommon but I am planning on finally getting bigger tattoos (I only have a very tiny one on my wrist) and I found two artists that I am in love with their work and would definitely want to get tattooed by both of them at some point.
my issue is I don't have any solid ideas of what I want. it is more of "I really love this artist's work and would love their work tattooed on me" rather than a clear and solid concept. when I try to think of ideas so I can try to book with them, my mind comes up blank. I know artists want at the very least a general idea of what the client wants but I keep coming up empty.
has anyone else experienced this? any ideas on how to brainstorm? is it rude to send a booking request and ask for the artist's help on coming up with an idea together?
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2021.09.26 11:57 SerialFreeloader123 How I would change the combat mechanics if Storm 5 was a thing
2021.09.26 11:57 Joco223 Mercedes giving Bottas a 5th engine just to hold off Max
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2021.09.26 11:57 Dtrinnie 🐶 MusKy Doge 👑 | Low Marketcap | Liquidity Lock | Owner Renounced
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2021.09.26 11:57 marius_tacitus Is there a simple way to let users find restaurants using Google places inside a website ?
I'm totally new to web design and Wordpress, and I am simply trying my hand at a little website for training/hobby.
I would like to make a site that lets users (essentially my friends group) search restaurants and add personal written reviews about them.
I have found countless plugins to build business directories or locate one's own stores, but it would be extremely tedious for users to fill each restaurant info themselves (exact adress, etc.). Ideally, I would like them to be able to enter the restaurant's name in a searchbar, find it among Google places with autocompletion, and clicking on it would redirect to an automatically generated page for this restaurant where they can leave their review. I would only really need to show the proper name and adress of the restaurant on that page, extracted from the Google places database.
Do you know if this is possible with a plugin or a simple procedure ? Or is this very unusual and would need heavy programing ? I would find that quite surprising but after hours of googling it does not seem so easy.
Thanks in advance !
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2021.09.26 11:57 prawnbiryani 💗☁🍦🌸🧁🤍🦩
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2021.09.26 11:57 UPform5 Is there a torrent for all of JBP's videos in the web?
It seems that a lot of JBP's videos are turned to private. Can anyone point me to where I can watch them again or even download all of them? Thanks! 🙏🙏🙏
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2021.09.26 11:57 RSBennett Bows vs Chakrams, and a question on ability points
Hi all, a couple of questions for all of you guys who are a lot smarter than me!
I’ve been running a might and finesse character, weapons wise I’ve got a long sword and bow. I’ve barely been using the bow, I was thinking about switching to chakrams so first part of my question is what are your guys views on chakrams vs the bow. Chakrams are undeniably a lot of fun to use, and I think a lot of why I don’t use the bow is waiting for it to charge, I tend to like faster weapons so the charging feels slow to me, but without charging the bow it feels like I may as well not bother because it barely does any damage.
And should a decision to switch to Chakrams be made, should I put points into Chakrams? That’s 11 points that could be spent elsewhere, plus it would lock me out of the final tier for might/finesse (if my maths is correct, it may well not be)
What are peoples views here? Any tips or advice would be appreciated
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