How should I handle this

2021.10.20 19:05 Big-Management7358 How should I handle this

So, my brother will call about once every 2 weeks or so just to check in and catch up. I have’t been close with him for a long time but My main point of contention with him is that he asks about my social life which right now is non existent due to the fact that I’m not able to go to therapy and between school/work, I can’t have a social life throwing me off balance. This quote from an article perfectly sums up my reason for isolating myself. “[bpd] occurs in the context of relationships. Unlike other psychiatric diagnoses, if you put someone with schizophrenia on an island all by themselves, their mental illness would still be evident. If you put someone with BPD on an island, you wouldn’t necessarily see the symptoms — whatever happens, happens in the context of [interacting] with someone else.” Right now, being alone is the healthiest means I have of coping.
Now, to why I am writing this. Having to admit to not having friends in COLLEGE of all places to my brother is excruciatingly embarrassing and lately I’ve just been ignoring his texts and calls. I want to tell him about being bpd but if/when he doesn’t believe me or starts gossiping about me to the rest of the family, it will just be extremely painful and I won’t be able to take it back. On the other hand I have to talk to him some time and I don’t think I can not defend myself. I think I am also scared that if I tell him, it just makes it real. I also know the self harm thing will freak him out. Any advise? Also if you made it to the end of reading this you are a gem and thank you!
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2021.10.20 19:05 Theman071384 A great anime and i backed only 10 days left

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2021.10.20 19:05 MalachiteMaybe526 A Problem (Bedrock)

Hello everyone! I'm here today because I have a problem and I'm looking for answers to it.
So here's the deal.
I've been working on my Minecraft world for about a couple months now, and this world is one that I hold super near and dear to me. I still haven't beaten the EnderDragon yet, or killed the Wither (haha noob). I did, however, manage to create my own village next to my house and obtain a max level cartographer, who traded me a Woodland Explorer Map for a hefty price. Welp, I decided to make the journey, and as it would turn out (since my house is right near the original world spawn), the mansion was over 12,000 blocks away.
Soooo, yeah....it took me awhile to get there.
Anyways, I finally found the mansion, set up a tiny camp, conquered the mansion, and then managed to luckily find a huge mineshaft with like 8 minecart chests (including glowberries). The problem is, since I haven't beaten the ED yet, I don't have shulker boxes to aide me in my travels and things. I have a llama with only 3 strength, a horse, and a donkey. I also started building a road in the air to try to prevent mobs, cliffs, water, ravines and things from getting in my way so I could safely make my way home. I really don't want to take a lot of trips, since it's soooo far away. But I don't know what else to do. I have a double chest and then like a third of another chest full of loot, and it's good stuff.
Do you guys have any ideas?? Should I try to build a flying machine in order to safely get over there? Should I continue with the road? Should I risk it all and try that? Someone please let me know if you have a better idea, or how to make an easy flying machine. I have 11 slimeballs I think and some redstone as we speak, and there's a slime chunk in the ravine that I found the mineshaft in.
Please help meeee!!!
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2021.10.20 19:05 CoronasNoLime 24 [M4MF] #Cobb - Just some dirty fun

Just a chill young ddf guy with good hygiene looking for another couple to mess around with. I don’t really have anything specific in mind, but if you do just let me know and we can make it happen. I’m cool with pics and vids being taken as well. If you want to see if there’s a possible attraction just check out my profile for pics.
Can chat further on kik or snap, or stick to here. Up to you!
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2021.10.20 19:05 guitar805 A beautiful reflective sunrise in the Canadian Rockies [3340x1670][OC] @shotsbyliam_

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2021.10.20 19:05 ____cire4____ You think cum is your ally. You've merely adapted cum. I was born in it, molded by it. I didn't see pussy until I was a man and by then it was only blinding.

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2021.10.20 19:05 blueberrysnacks Advice on doctors

Hello, I am undiagnosed but fit criteria. Hopefully I’m wrong but I’ve struggled for a few years with intense tension headaches in back of head and neck. I have terrible pulsital Tinnitus. Whenever I bend down low, or lay on stomach and look up, I get a “whooshing” in my head and feel like I may pass out.
I’ve been to two neurologists, an ENT, and my primary care dr. I’ve been given MRIs and MRAs of the head and neck and they came back clear.
I’ve suggested the possibility of IIH to all the doctors, and they have all shrugged me off and said I’m fine.
My question is, is there a specialist that I should be trying to go to, to rule out IIH. Or other questions, or suggestions I should be bringing up to DRs for maybe more testing? I see my neurologist next Monday for twitching muscle spasms in my face, legs, and abdomen. I would like to be able to bring the head pressure up again, but not be blown off like before.
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2021.10.20 19:05 Indication_Prior Day 4!!

the fucking urges are hitting very hard. i’m trying to abstain from watching porn and jerk off. i know i can do it i’m just here to distract myself and get some inspiration
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2021.10.20 19:05 TermoSimone__ Da un'idea di SassyDave durante il Gameshow

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2021.10.20 19:05 steviebrunner Should I?

Send Gibson and get back DJ Moore?
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2021.10.20 19:05 starwarsacdc Unpopular opinion: The sequels are actually better than the prequels

Despite their flaws, they feel like actual movies while the prequels feel way to convulted
“It’s so dense”
When I watched them for the first time I felt like I was tripping
But when I watched the sequels, as bad as they were, I actually felt like I was going to the movies
The question is, where does the story go from here?
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2021.10.20 19:05 treypowor prolonged existential stasis under displeasurable circumstantial states

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2021.10.20 19:05 goblinite2 Come take my candy, please.

2 days and a total of 4 candy taken. People are buying stuff from my vendor and ignoring the bowl.
Please come take my candy and I will reciprocate. Goblinite on XBox.
Thanks.
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2021.10.20 19:05 SellerNoah LEBRON THE HORROR GAME

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2021.10.20 19:05 OldSweatyBulbasar If the Titans plot were to begin anew next season, what would you rather see as explanation?

Just for fun
View Poll
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2021.10.20 19:05 segir Winewood Organic has me

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2021.10.20 19:05 post-news 'Is This a Joke?': What the State Department Is Focused On Today Amid Multiple Crises

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2021.10.20 19:05 Taur-e-Ndaedelos Slovenian Torrent sites?

Are there any? Or any one that has some Slovenian material?
If I'm breaking any rule here's a picture of a dolphin.
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2021.10.20 19:05 Chfullerton26 Why don't people who are advertising on reddit keep the comments on?

Saw a back for blood that prominently said "fight the horde with a variety of weaponry" or smthn, wanted to leave a comment that in my opinion it has less variety in my experience, but nope. It's just obvious they don't want to listen to their audience I think. I like the game it's just kinda like unfinished.
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